There is an age you get to as a Man, and your chances of marrying your dream girl are reduced. This differs from one individual to another and is based on approach too. If you approach from a financial angle, a man can marry whoever fits into the physique he desires. This happens from New York to Kumasi and Abuja to London.
However, if you approach this from an emotional level, then it becomes true. Some of us want to experience a young lover’s romance and travel to Paris or the Maldives as a young husband with a young wife. Make beautiful memories between us and start planning about a child or children.
As you advance in age, your priorities will change, and a young lover’s romance may be secondary. You can marry, and a baby is on the way already, and you start saving for childcare and treating back pain or your balding hair.
This is why, as a young man, you need to take your romantic life seriously. Don’t use money to buy attention because you deserve to be with someone who genuinely wants to create beautiful memories with you, and if things go well, start a family together.
A man can always marry when he wants, but who he wants may depend on his pocket, not if he is truly loved.
Martin Beck Nworah